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Konika
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07/11/2005
01:45:59
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Which one is better? Face to face adda or adda on net? Why so many people are looking for friends? Does it mean people now-a-days do not have enough friends? or they have more free-time to chat? No, the second one is not possible. I think, ami chara sabai ekhon busy. Anyway, I like the site very much.


rahul
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07/11/2005
06:30:12
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hi konika,
actually in todays world, amader protteker kache somoy khub kome gache, kintu amra anekae diner onekta somoy computer ar samne katai, and to me it's nice to chat with a friend, jake ami hoito kono din dekhteo pabo na. amader oneker-e bondhu/bandhobi ache amra hoito tader sathe regularly dekha kori, adda mari , kintu notun bondhur khoj pete ke na chai bolo...




Konika
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07/11/2005
23:50:32
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hi Rahul,
thanks for the reply. ami totaly natun ei site-e.
tomader mato experience nei. tai jante chaichi, net-er friend-der sathe meet karo na kakhono tomra? jader sathe you are sharing so many things, tader facial expression dekhbar katha mone hai na? actally in our student life we did not have internet.(I think I am much older than you guys). that is why I have so many questions on net-adda.
take care


saha
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08/11/2005
00:24:21
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hi,
konika i liked your question...actually i feel chatting through internet gives u some extent of anonymity. it s not only the lack of time that forces you to get into internet chatting.one more thing i feel personally is that as; many people goes away from there close friends for job purpose, then the internet is the best way to keep in touch with their friends. this leads to the addiction of internet chatting.naturally u meet new friends.

you can try http://chat.banglalive.com for chatting in bengali

bye


rahul
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08/11/2005
04:44:19
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hi konika,
kemon acho? ami last 2 months ae site-e achi kintu amar ekhane chat kore bhaloe lage. ami khub selective site-e chat kore, jekhane chat korar moto same manoshikotar manush der paoa jai.
aar akta kotha, net-e adda mara and personally dekha korar modhe kono bibad ache bole amar mone hoe na. ami besh koek jon er sathe personally meet korechi,even ami bombay gie amar ek chat friend-er barite stay porjonto kore esechi , but the problem is, dekha korar por tara aar net friend thake na, puropuri friend hoye jai.
tobe bhalo kore na jene karur sathe to kue dekha kore na , and net chat is the only way to know your companion better.

now can i ask questions to you??
tell us something about yourself, where do you stay etc.



Konika
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08/11/2005
23:37:55
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Hi,
mon-mejaj bhalo na. my son has fever and couldn't go to school today. but we had to come to work...kichu bhalo lagche na.
Saha,(doesn't sound good calling by last name) i'll try the site you suggested.
Rahul,do u want to mean net friends are not puropuri friends? anyway,i live in iit,kharagpur. origin is kokata. what about u?


rahul
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09/11/2005
06:31:04
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hi,
tell me first how is your son? hope he is already fit. it seems that both of you are working, and i know it's hard time for you.
kintu chinta koro na , jani ae somoy kaje mon bosena kintu kaj to kortee hobe, jai hok as you are from kolkata and setteled in kharagpur, i am originally of asansol and now in kolkata 4 last 8 years, i am in business and have my office at salt lake.

My personal e mail number is - only_me321@rediffmail.com
Do mail me in my mail num.

ta-ta 4 now



Konika
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10/11/2005
01:02:23
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Hi Rahul,
my son is better...has gone to school today. yes, both of us work here. iit campus is very beautiful, totally academic environment. bhalo lage, kintu iit chara kharagpure ar kichu nei bhalo lagar mato. kolkata kamon lage tomar? salt lake e kothay office? salt lake is very quiet place.
anyway, do u believe in horoscope...kusthi, pathar dharan etc.,etc..?



Debasish
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10/11/2005
10:50:31
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Hotat kore apander alochante dhuke porlam,
Marjona Korben.
Horscope , Kusthi , Astrology asob e ami
personally biswas kori na, tobe mone hoy
egulo akta moner medicine jeta hoyto kao
kao ke bhalo kore tole er sathe groho
nokhotrorer kono jogajog nei.

aapnara ki bolen ?

Bhalo Thakben


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10/11/2005
10:51:29
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Hi Konika

It was a really nice suprise to see that you are from IIT KGP. But
I don't agree with you that there is nothing there to do! But since
I was born and brought up in IIT environment I must be biased.
My mother agrees with you 100% even after living there for more
than 35 years!! I went to St. Agnes, Hijli High and Kendriya
Vidyalaya. Later I did integrated MSc. from IIT itself. All my Sukh,
Dukhho, memories of childhood sweetheatrs, crushes, lovely
friendships are still there even if I am so so far away!! IIT is in my
blood. But I guess I am may be too biased! How old is your son?
Which school does he go to? What do you do there? Which
department/ Where do you stay? B-type, C-1 Quaters? Reply
soon. I am dying to hear from you!

Bye




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10/11/2005
10:51:46
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Hi Konika

It was a really nice suprise to see that you are from IIT KGP. But
I don't agree with you that there is nothing there to do! But since
I was born and brought up in IIT environment I must be biased.
My mother agrees with you 100% even after living there for more
than 35 years!! I went to St. Agnes, Hijli High and Kendriya
Vidyalaya. Later I did integrated MSc. from IIT itself. All my Sukh,
Dukhho, memories of childhood sweetheatrs, crushes, lovely
friendships are still there even if I am so so far away!! IIT is in my
blood. But I guess I am may be too biased! How old is your son?
Which school does he go to? What do you do there? Which
department/ Where do you stay? B-type, C-1 Quaters? Reply
soon. I am dying to hear from you!

Bye




Konika
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14/11/2005
06:26:52
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Hi Debasish,
are u the same person I have met on another site? thanks anyway for the reply. Astrology nie study korte chai kintu samayer abhabe parchi na. kichu katha eto mile jai... I don't wear stones but like to know are the people wearing stones get any benifit or feel any difference? I asked several people but didn't get any strong "yes" from them.

Hi Rahul & Saha,
why silent???????

Hi Ex-IITian,
u must be much younger than me. your feelings for IIT is very natural. I have also the same feeling for Kolkata. IIT's environment is very nice. but I told that outside IIT campus, there is nothing to do - absolutely nothing. Angry?????
where are u now? don't u come to IIT to meet your family? next time when u come let me know, I'll invite u in my house for dinner.
my son is 9-years old and goes to DAV school. after few years he will say the same thing u are saying today, tai na?



rahul
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15/11/2005
10:04:58
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hello everybody,

sobai kemon acho? konika, how is your son( pls or nam ta janao, it's very boring to call him "your son" every time)? ami khub sohoje "silent" hoi na , kintu ektu kaje basto chilam, ae site-e regular nojor rekhechi kintu jobab dewar somoy paini.

ami kolkata-e anek din dhore achi, now kolkata is part of my life tai alada kore bhalo/ kharap kichu lage na, tobe it's a happening place and everyday kolkata aaro sundari tillottama hoye uthche.
Salt lake amar khub pochonder, ami age jadavpur, lake gardens -e thekechi, this place is different from them. Sara din kajer por salt lake-er santo poribesh amar khub bhalo lage.
Have you visited city center, if not do come here.ekhane ale tumi bujhte parbe kolkata(and salt lake)koto taratari bodle jache.

aar astrology, amar mone hoi prithibite teen dhoroner manush ache,

1) jara stone,bhaggo etc biswas kore

2) jara stone,bhaggo etc biswas kore na

3) jara stone,bhaggo etc biswas kore kintu mukhe bole ekdom biswas korena

ami nije kichu stone ettadi pori na kintu majhe majhe mone hoe dekhina ekbar pore, kichu na hole khul phelbo!!

se ekbar ke jeno jigges kore chilo-- "kon banga karorpati" te karorpati koun bana?

Sobai answer ta janlo After the show- it's amitabh bachhan & the producers.
Se rokom amader jibone joto competition , problems bere cholech amra tototai "support" nebar ceshta kore choleche bivinno stone, tabiz, maduli ettadi die, tate aar kichu hok na hok jewlary and rotno babsa-e ra dinke din babsa-r poridhi bari-e cholechen..

anek kotha bollam, aaj ae porjonto-e

ta-ta






Konika
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15/11/2005
23:52:00
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Hi Rahul,
ami kintu tomar categories er modhey pori na. ami subject ta samparke jante chai setate truely biswas korar age. but the fact is that these types of things make us weak. as life is becoming coplicated, sobai amra way-out chaichi to reduce the complication. anyway, tomar KBC-r galpota bhishan bhalo.
although I have not been in City-Center yet, I frequently go to Kolkata to visit my parents. tai kolkatar change bujhte asubidha hoi na....taratarite achi...so bye for now, pare kotha habe


rahul
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16/11/2005
09:12:33
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hi konika,
tarahuror modhe-o amar mail tar jobab dewar jonno thanks, aaj abar ami ektu taratari te achi, ami kal abar mail korbo.
till then take care.


rahul
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27/11/2005
08:33:24
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hi konika,
onek din pore mail korchi, asole ami je din last mail korechilam tar por din sorir samanno kharap hoye chilo, aar ami ektu baire-o geyechelam.
jai hok, er modhe aar kono mail aseni dekhchi, tumi-o kichu path-o ni, kemon acho, ki khobor janao....

till then take care.


Debasish
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27/11/2005
11:52:32
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Hi To Rahul and Konika.

This is a forum, a discussion platform,
Personal messages can always be sent on
Your Individual email addresses otherwise
it looks more like a chat room than a
Discussion (alochona ) otherwise the
basic purpose is lost.




Konika
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28/11/2005
01:06:12
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Hi Debasish,
although the name is 'alochona', it is a chat room, 'bishwo bangali-r adda'. Yes, we can always carry on some serious discussion through our chat kintu nirbhejal addar ki darkar nei kono? adda is not necessarily personal message always. anyway, I respect your thought. how is your work going on? u seem to be a serious person. I'll be happy if u share your thought and opinion with us.
take care.

Hi Rahul,
how are u now? puro fit to? last week basto chilam, mail korte parini. khub kolkata jete icche korche - baba, ma - r kache. kintu chuti nei. tomar kaj kamon cholche? amar research-r kaj slow down kore gache. why I don't know. IIT campus becomes pretty in winter.
bhalo theko.

Hi Ex IITian,
what happened to you? I am waiting for your mail...


Debasish
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29/11/2005
04:19:23
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Hello My Mates,

I was in transit so I could not come ,
Forgive me If I was too harsh in my
request.

Let me settle in Calcutta then I will come
as usual.

Enjoy Kolkatar Thanda.

Take Care
Debasish


Ex IIT ian
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29/11/2005
11:38:58
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Hi Konika Di ( Is didi ok or do you want me to call you just
Konika?)

As to your earlier question, My Father has retired now and they
are in Kolkata right now. But I still visited KGP this year and last
year. which Department are you in? What do you do?

Hope to hear from you soon


OOps
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30/11/2005
05:36:14
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Hi Konika Masi kamon acho, Akhono Meso khuje paoni?



dipankar
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02/12/2005
09:07:26
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Amar ekta bondhur problem niye ami chintitto? Ektu help korbe keu? Jodi korte chaan ta hole ami nischinto hote pari! problem ta erokom:-
My friend is a MCA, doing job. So he was going to be married. Both the families(girl and boy side) agreed except the girl. The girl is doing MBA. She did not refuse but said that she has proposed a guy in her class and is also a BE. However the guy did not give any response till date. Now my friend wants a solution. what should i say? what suggestion i can give to my friend? he is coming with a broken heart to me soon to get a solution! As because i am a broken hearted guy and very concious and careful about a relationship/love affair i picked a solution, i want a refinement thereof from you guys. My solution is:- Tell the girl directly that he loves her. Will he say this? Or rather my friend can beg will folded hands and say "if you refuse me i will die soon". What is the solution? I am asking this to both Girls and boys of this room.Give me a solution so that i can make my friend understand better.
Thank you.


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